Normal Life

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My brother Steve tells the story of his first visit with a new doctor. He told her, “Doctor, I want to let you know that I smoke too much, drink too much, eat the wrong foods, stay up too late, and live with constant stress. But, the one thing I don’t do is drugs.”

“How can I help you today, Steve?” she asked.

Steve replied, “I’m here for the drugs.” Fortunately, he only needed an antibiotic.

I think about that story every time I need a doctor. A little over a week ago, I got sick. I prayed for the first three days that the Lord would instantly heal me. After getting worse, I moved on to Plan B. Nowadays, diagnosing your illness starts with the assumption that you have one of two things. You either have COVID or Not-COVID. It turned out that I had Not-COVID. They then want to know what are the other symptoms such as did you break an arm or do you have a cough? As luck would have it, I have that Not-COVID thing-that’s-going-around, which is particularly bad for people your age. I got drugs.

My fever lasted too long, and we had to cancel Christmas at our house this year. We usually have 20 or so people spending the day here eating and playing games from late morning till late evening.

I love to tell stories about how God swoops in and saves me or others from life’s difficulties. Well, Don, welcome back to normal life. In normal life, healing comes through physicians. There was that order in the garden of Eden telling mankind to take dominion. Jesus even mentioned the sick needing them. Every time God performs a miracle, it seems he has a reason. For example, physicians aren’t available, they don’t have the answer, or he is trying to teach us something.

I wanted something easier, but even Jesus didn’t get out of normal life. There was no teleporting between cities; He had to walk. He knew heat, cold, hunger, sweat, tiredness, temptation, and every other thing that we humans go through.

Even if you could have perfect communication with a baby in the womb, you would not be able to explain what awaits them after birth. In the womb, there is no understanding of the outside world to relate to. The best you could hope for would be to communicate: I love you, there’s a place for you, and you will like it here. Although there are many speculations, in the same way, we know very little of what awaits us after this life. Just as a baby in the womb develops what it needs after birth, we are here to first have a relationship with God and then make faith, hope, and love a working part of our being. It sounds like those are the vital things we need in life to come.

On the spiritual high, when God gives us faith, we can just lay our hand on something or someone and pray and see the fulfillment of the promise. In normal life, when faith comes, opposition and a reason not to believe come with it. Our answer is delayed, and that faith is tested. Similarly, when we make our request known to the Lord and put our hope in him, our prayers may sound like they have a hollow echo and never leave the room. We might question if God is willing, but far more often, we’ll question ourselves and our worthiness. Now, love, that’s the big one. It’s so easy on the spiritual high. In normal life, it’s often met with misunderstanding, rejection, or apathy. We can enjoy faith, hope, and love when living on a spiritual high, but we learn them in normal life.

22 responses to “Normal Life”

  1. I hope your are feeling better! I think it is in the normal life w see God’s hand in our lives but it’s also just as easy to miss the whispers of God in the busy normal life.

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    1. Thank you, Amy. I am feeling better and you are so right; when you don’t feel well, it is so easy to miss the whispers.

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  2. AMEN!!!!! Good word!!!!

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  3. Thank you for sharing this truth!!!!

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  4. Merry Christmas Don, there is always the new year to look forward to.

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    1. Thank you, Arlene. I think 2023 is going to be a much better year than 2022. May it be a wonderful year for you.

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  5. Well Don, You have both feet on the ground in looking at how God works (or seemingly doesn’t, yet does) in our lives. I hope to have a good walk and talk with God today, then tomorrow….

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    1. Thank you, Gary. I think I feel more like God’s trouble making teenager. At 79, I wonder if there is enough time left for me to grow up and be less of a problem for the Lord.

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      1. I sure understand that sentiment. Sometimes I picture the Lord rubbing his hands together saying “bring it on, but beware, I’ll use you through it”. It’s that Saul to Paul example that gives me pause.

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  6. “In normal life, when faith comes, opposition and a reason not to believe come with it. Our answer is delayed, and that faith is tested.”
    Don, This is so true and I have often wondered why I hadn’t learned it sooner. But who would willingly sign up for opposition? We must learn as we go. Step by step.
    So many are turning away from their faith today. I heard statistics in the sermon this morning. So I pray for faith to the finish for us all. Thanks for the post.
    Stay healthy and Happy New Year!

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    1. Thank you, Deborah. Your comment is encouraging.

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  7. Don, you make a great analogy about communication with a baby in the womb. Gives a fresh and accurate perspective. Thanks, and have a blessed 2023.

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  8. Sometimes when everything is routine, nothing is wrong, and the sun is on our shoulders, we forget about the blessing of being normal without crosses to bear. But-if we allow them-those crosses sure do make us stronger! Thanks, Don, for your wonderful perspective.

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  9. Reblogged this on Mitch Teemley and commented:
    My Featured Blogger this week is Don White of Walking the path. I know nothing about Don (his blog is still new) except that he writes with a great deal of wit and wisdom. Oh, yes, and this: that you should read his posts!

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    1. Thank you, Mitch. I am very honored that you would reblog my post.

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  10. The Bible is pretty clear that these bodies of ours are temporary. Sure, there are times when sickness is a result of sin (example: hangovers), but too often it’s just that we live in a fallen world. I am at an age where I long more and more to be clothed in my new body, the one that will last forever and live forever with Jesus. Meanwhile, we have all kinds of opportunities to exercise patience and long-suffering… (*eye roll*) – the “Praise-the-Lord-anyway” attitude. 😉

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  11. I’m sorry to hear that you were ill over Christmas, Don. I must have missed this post when you originally posted it due to the festivities. I hope, by now, that you are recovering well. It’s so true that God works through medics. I attend hospital for regular checks and tests, due to a lung condition, and it amazes me what they are able to do for us. I also agree that it’s in ‘normal’ life that we get to practise the lessons God teaches us. Reality is the perfect school for life.

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  12. Found this via Mitch Teemley and I’m glad I did. Life does have a way of being very real at times. We don’t live on a cloud, we live in a war zone. Like you, I sometimes feel like a teenager, bumbling around and walking into things. I just turned 80, and I still hope to grow up one day. Looking forward to your next post.

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  13. Thank you. I am just a youngster at 79. Mitch honored me by reblogging my post.

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